Your Best Week Ever

By Doug Thompson

I stared at the headline: “Hardest, Saddest Week Ever.” The Surgeon General was warning Americans that we all need to brace ourselves emotionally for the equivalent of “Pearl Harbor,” and “9/11.” The week before Easter Sunday.

I was struck by the irony: For Christians, this is a Holy Week. Last Sunday we celebrated Palm Sunday, the beginning of Jesus’ final week on this earth. 2,000 years ago, He entered Jerusalem, humble, and mounted on a donkey. He came as the Prince of Peace to suffer His final rejection by His own people; to be mocked, tortured, and nailed to a cross. He had committed no crime worthy of death. His own enemies could find no sin in Him. But He was fulfilling prophecy as well as the will of His Father: to take on Himself the sins of His people and die in their place that they might be forgiven and have eternal life.

Ironically, we call the night of His crucifixion, Good Friday. Good, in spite of the unspeakable horror He endured that ended in His death. Very good, because that death purchased salvation and freedom for anyone who will trust in Him and what His death accomplished. Revelation 7:9 says that this will encompass, “a great multitude that no one could number, from every nation, from all tribes and peoples and languages.” And on the first day of the next week, Jesus rose from the grave, alive, as the Conqueror of sin, Satan, and death. I’d say that was the best week ever.

So here we are in the middle of a worldwide pandemic that could be over soon, or not. Or it could come back in wave after sickening wave until we develop a vaccine. And then, we await the next plague. Jesus said there will be “pestilence” (Lk.24:11) increasing in severity, until His return. Our Surgeon General might have been right that hard, sad times lie ahead this next week. But unfortunately he was mistaken: much harder, sadder times are coming. Jesus called it “Tribulation.” And it will make this current pandemic look like the sniffles.

The truth is, we are all going to die, whether from coronavirus, or old age. And even this isn’t the worst news. The Bible speaks of a “second death,” which is eternal punishment and separation from God as the due punishment for our sins. But God, in His mercy, has provided a rescue – an antidote for this poison of sin which is killing us all—

“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16)

If this horrible, stalking virus has caused you to sense your mortality, see your sinfulness before a holy God, and your desperate need for a Savior, then I urge you not to delay, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved!” (Acts 16:31). Death and sadness in this world will continue. And even Christians have no immunity against suffering, sadness, and death. But for those whose hope is in Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior, “over such, the second death has no power” (Rev.20:6).

This could be your best week ever.

Doug Thompson is the pastor of Middletown Bible Church. This year is his 30th year of ministry there. He is also a professor at Cornerstone Seminary in Vallejo, CA.

7 Things You Might Forget to do During Quarantine

Last month life as we knew it came to a screeching halt. As we all adjust to our “new normal” (which changes every day), it’s easy for things that were part of our old routine to fall through the cracks. But they are still important. Here are 7 things you might have forgotten to do over the last few weeks.

Clean out the car. Yesterday I opened the backseat of the car and found snacks that I couldn’t even remember giving to my kids. The kids haven’t been in the car in who knows how long. I’m nervous to find out what else might be under the seats. I think it’s time to check.

Bathe the kids. If you’re like me, your bath schedule revolved around weekly social activities. With all social activities canceled I might need to actually write this one my calendar.   

Make a meal plan. Without school lunches to pack and evening practices to attend, it’s easy to fall into a whatever-works cooking routine. But intentionally planning meals can bring a comforting rhythm to family life. Print out your meal plan and post it where everyone can see it. Your family will look forward to it each day. Meals are a simple but profound way to connect. Our families need that connection right now.

Check on “church friends.” We naturally check in with family and close friends, but what about the people we only see at church? Their faces added comforting predictability to our weekly routine. Without church it’s easy to take them for granted. Try checking in with a different person every day. This will help you remember people you don’t typically talk to between Sundays.

Check on your pastor. Your pastor is checking on everyone else. Who is checking on him? The pastors in my life (including my local pastor, my dad, and my brother-in-law) have been on the phone non-stop. They are reaching out to every sheep in their flocks. They are delivering groceries people. They are having communion with the elderly over the phone. And they are still writing sermons. Pastors have their own families to tend to during these difficult days. Don’t underestimate the impact of telling your pastor that you are praying for him. Ask if his family needs anything.

Give to the church. It’s easy to view giving as a built-in part of church attendance, but it’s actually a built-in part of worship. When attendance isn’t possible, giving still is. But is it happening? Pastors still need to eat.

Get ready for Easter. Easter is going to be different this year. The special church services, family get-togethers, egg hunts, and church picnics will be missed. But Christ’s resurrection is still worth celebrating. Let your kids see you preparing. Get out the Easter books. Read a part of the gospel account each day. Print off some activities or coloring pages that help their hearts focus on the gospel. It might seem like bad timing for a holiday, but maybe it’s the best timing. Maybe hearts are softer. Maybe ears are listening. If there is one thing we can’t forget during quarantine, it’s that Christ died for sinners. It’s our greatest comfort and our eternal hope. Now, without all of the distractions our culture has added to this day, we can focus on what it’s really about. Make this the Easter your kids always remember – not because of what they didn’t get to do, but because of what Christ did for us.

Books by Sara Wallace

Created to Care: God’s Truth for Anxious Moms

“The gospel is the foundation for what it means to be a mother. It is always through this lens that Sara’s wisdom comes shining into our daily lives where joining all the dots can be tricky.” – Kristyn Getty, soloist; composer; hymnwriter; coauthor of Sing!

For the Love of Discipline: When the Gospel Meets Tantrums and Time-Outs

“The culmination of 30 years of evangelical thinking about parenting. Clear guidelines, great illustrations, and very practical.” – Pastor Steve, Atlanta

The Gospel-Centered Mom Bible Study

“The Gospel-Centered Mom is a huge gulp of refreshing air for moms who are in the thick of raising kids. It takes your eyes off of your performance and places them on the one who performed perfectly for us.” – Jessica Thompson, co-author of Give Them Grace

Kids at Home: Survival Tips for Parents

The Coronavirus has created an unexpected situation for many parents: kids at home. It’s like summer break came early…but it didn’t. Kids and parents are both thrown into a situation they weren’t prepared for. As a stay-at-home homeschool mom of five, I want to pass along some tried and true survival tips. My boys’ ages are 3, 6, 7, 9, and 10. I hope these ideas will relieve stress and help you maintain an environment of peace and productivity (and fun!) in your home during the uncertain days ahead.

1. Schedule. A simple but well thought out plan will protect you from burn-out and make the days speed by. Kids love knowing what’s coming next. Spend the first day discussing a schedule as a family and then hang it up in a place where everyone can see it. An effective schedule will be detailed enough to be productive, but broad enough to be flexible. And be ready to change it! Schedules are not set in stone. Instead of a detailed list, think in terms of time blocks. This will allow you to vary the specifics within each block. It also allows you to keep the same schedule for a mixed age group. Here is an example:

Morning: (After breakfast)

9:00 Chores and get ready for the day

9:30 Read out loud together (ideas: Bible, picture books, start a chapter book, family devotional)

9:45 School

10:15 Snack (and finish morning school)

11:00 Free play until lunch

Afternoon:

12:00 Lunch

12:30 Quiet time (on the bed or in the bedroom)

1:30 School

2:30 Free play

4:00 Clean up and screen time

Evening:

5:00 Dinner

5:30 Free Play

7:00 Clean up and get ready for bed

7:30 Independent reading until lights out

2. Education. During the “School” portion of the day, you might find you want to supplement what your school has sent home for your kids. Here are some of our family’s favorite supplemental activities.

YouTube: Do a search on your child’s favorite topic and gather the clips into a playlist. It’s a great way to preapprove clips and have them play one right after the other. Some of my kids’ favorite educational YouTube channels are: How It’s Made, The Slo Mo Guys, Art for Kids Hub, and Answers in Genesis. (Note: Never let your kids watch YouTube unsupervised.)

Shows: Travel with Kids (Amazon Prime), Blue Planet (Netflix), Families of the World (Amazon Prime).

Websites:

Deep Sea  An amazing interactive ocean exploration. My kids LOVE this!

Mystery Science This site offers video lessons along with printable worksheets and activities. The lessons are excellent. You can pay for a membership, but there are a variety of free lessons. (Note: This is not a Christian website and sometimes portrays a secular point of view.)

Apps: There are thousands of educational apps – some useful, and some not. These are a few that I have found consistently helpful: United States Map Quiz, MathCards, Word Mind, Prodigy, BrainPOP, BrainPOP Jr., First Grade Spelling Words (the same company has all the elementary grades).

3. Independent Play

If I had to entertain my kids all day, I would go crazy. It is good for kids to play independently. Here are some fun independent (or low parent involvement) activities and toys.

Activities  

Audio books, reading (if you need book ideas, the Read-Aloud Revival has excellent book lists), build a fort, squirt guns, make maps, play a board game, make a board game, bubbles, puzzles, bike riding, card games, make a comic strip, make cards for loved ones, scrapbook, playdough, make a scavenger hunt (older kids make it for the younger kids), have an early Easter egg hunt, color by number (printables available online).

Toys

These are some of my kids’ favorite toys. They have stood the test of time. They are all available on Amazon, are all educational, and all have a high play value: Perler Beads, Marble Genius, Legos, Brain Flakes, K’Nex, Magic Tracks, Lincoln Logs, Light Brite, Fossil Dig kits, Rainbow Loom, Magformers.  

As parents, our number one job during this season is to maintain an environment of peace in our homes. If your best laid plans fall apart, it’s still an opportunity to model joy and thankfulness in a time of chaos. Life will look different and different is okay. Messy transitions are okay. This can be a beautiful time of growth in unexpected ways – for us and for our kids.

Books by Sara Wallace

Created to Care: God’s Truth for Anxious Moms

“The gospel is the foundation for what it means to be a mother. It is always through this lens that Sara’s wisdom comes shining into our daily lives where joining all the dots can be tricky.” – Kristyn Getty, soloist; composer; hymnwriter; coauthor of Sing!

For the Love of Discipline: When the Gospel Meets Tantrums and Time-Outs

“The culmination of 30 years of evangelical thinking about parenting. Clear guidelines, great illustrations, and very practical. – Pastor Steve, Atlanta

The Gospel-Centered Mom Bible Study

“The Gospel-Centered Mom is a huge gulp of refreshing air for moms who are in the thick of raising kids. It takes your eyes off of your performance and places them on the one who performed perfectly for us.” – Jessica Thompson, co-author of Give Them Grace

Top Gospel-Centered Resources for 2020

Are you frustrated trying to find gospel-centered parenting resources in the sea of “Christian” books and music? I’ve put together a list of 30 resources that point moms and kids back to the gospel. Click on the images to see more info!

Books for Moms

Bible Studies for Moms

(See series: Living Word Bible Studies)

Poetry

Books for Kids

(See series: Christian Biographies for Young Readers)

Music for Kids

BONUS: Book for Husbands

7 Lies Anxiety Wants Us to Believe

Anxiety disguises itself as the voice of reason. Just like Satan’s lie to Eve, anxiety calls into question God’s love while tempting us with promises of more knowledge and more control. (Genesis 3:1-5) Only truth from God’s word can help us fight such a crafty enemy. Let’s expose 7 specific lies of anxiety, and the truths that helps us fight it.

Lie #1: Anxiety keeps you in control. Anxiety promises to prepare us for the worst. If we constantly live through everything that could happen, we’ll be ready if/when it does…right? But it’s a false sense of security. Anxiety doesn’t prepare us for the future; it only robs us of joy in the present.
Truth: “And who of you by being worried can add a single hour to his life?…But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” Matthew 6:27, 33

Lie #2: Anxiety leads to peace. Anxiety promises that if we mull over the scary hypotheticals or if we constantly relive every past hurt, we will eventually come to some sort of satisfying conclusion. But it’s a wild goose chase. There are some questions, some “what-if’s,” that we cannot resolve this side of heaven. Peace comes from looking at our perfect savior, not at our circumstances.
Truth: “Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Do not let your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful.” John 14:27

Lie #3: Your feelings define reality. Anxiety calls us to live in an imaginary world. We see everything through the lens of how we feel. But our feelings change. They lie. We will not find rest for our weary souls in our ever-changing feelings. We can only find true rest in the unchanging character of God.
Truth: “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.” Hebrews 13:8

Lie #4: Anxiety owns you. Once you’ve stepped down that mental path of fear, it’s easy to forget the way back out. One fear leads to another. Anxiety becomes master. It demands our loyalty. But in Christ, we don’t owe anxiety our next thought. Our hearts and our minds belong to Christ. He is our master and He will never let us go.
Truth: “You are from God, little children, and have overcome them; because greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world.” 1 John 4:4

Lie #5: Your anxious thoughts are from God. Anxiety often starts with something good: a desire to be the best wife and mom, or an opportunity to take on more responsibility at church or at work. These precious responsibilities seem inseparable from stress and worry. Worrying almost feels like part of being a good steward. But while the responsibilities are from God, the worry is not. God does not want us to fear. He wants us to trust Him.
Truth: “Do not fear, for I am with you; do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, surely I will help you, surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.” Isaiah 41:10

Lie #6: Anxiety claims your identity. Anxiety wants you to believe that this is who you are: You are an anxious person and you always will be. But the gospel gives us one (and ONLY one) identity: Jesus Christ. When God looks at you, He sees His Son. In Christ, you are not who you were yesterday – you are who Christ is today. His perfect life is yours. His righteousness is yours.
Truth: “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come.” 2 Corinthians 5:17

Lie #7: If you struggle with anxiety, God can’t use you for his glory. When we fall for anxiety’s lies and give into worry, the worry spirals into guilt. The anxiety that promised control and peace suddenly turns on us. “What kind of Christian are you? Your faith is so weak.” But every struggle, every weakness is an opportunity to put God’s glory on display. When we lay our anxiety at the foot of the cross (over and over again), we open our hearts for the power of Christ to dwell in us. The very thing that shows us our guilt is the same thing that shows us the beauty of our savior. When Satan throws your anxiety in your face and says, “You did it again” – look to the cross. You live by the power of Christ.
Truth: “And He has said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.’ Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me…for when I am weak, then I am strong.” 2 Corinthians 12:9-10

Books by Sara Wallace

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Created to Care: God’s Truth for Anxious Moms

“The gospel is the foundation for what it means to be a mother. It is always through this lens that Sara’s wisdom comes shining into our daily lives where joining all the dots can be tricky.” – Kristyn Getty, soloist; composer; hymnwriter; coauthor of Sing!

For the Love of Discipline: When the Gospel Meets Tantrums and Time-Outs

“The culmination of 30 years of evangelical thinking about parenting. Clear guidelines, great illustrations, and very practical. – Pastor Steve, Atlanta

The Gospel-Centered Mom Bible Study

“The Gospel-Centered Mom is a huge gulp of refreshing air for moms who are in the thick of raising kids. It takes your eyes off of your performance and places them on the one who performed perfectly for us.” – Jessica Thompson, co-author of Give Them Grace